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August 16, 2017

Are You a VICTIM? Or a SPIRITUAL WARRIOR?

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~*“Do You Have a Victim Identity?”*~
Paraphrased by
Master Coach Hu Dalconzo
from the works of Eckhart Tolle,
Jack Kornfield & Steve Siebold

Almost every ego contains at least an
element of a “Victim Identity.”
Some people have such a strong
victim identity that it becomes
the central core of their Beingness.
When this happens,
resentment and grievances form the
essential core of their sense of self.

Even if your egoic grievances
are entirely justified,
you have constructed an identity
for your Self that is like a PRISON
whose bars are made
of negative thought forms.
If you are Consciously Awake enough
to distinguish the voice inside your head
from your Spirit, then you will be able to
feel the identification you have with
your ego’s victim ‘story’.

This will help you transcend the
egoic compulsion to think
or talk about your Self as a… “victim.”
If you are Consciously Conscious
enough to “witness” the victim voices
playing inside your head,
this is fantastic news
because it is the first step to creating…
SPIRITUAL LIBERATION.

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August 11, 2017

Are You Charging Too Little… FOR YOUR COACHING SERVICES?

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Paraphrased By Work Originally
Composed By Stefan James

Here Are the FINAL Three Reasons Why You Might Be
Charging Too Little for Your Spiritual Life Coaching Services…

  1. You Don’t Think You Are Worth It. We hear this all too often. If you went to school to be a teacher… you would expect a salary. If you went to school for massage, you would expect a salary… why is Coaching any different?? A lot of new coaches know the credentials of their mentors and feel intimidated to charge what they charge because they don’t have the same hours of experience. What HLC has done to account for this is incorporate on-the-job training into the certification program. This automatically adds hours of experience, plus increases a Coach’s confidence to provide results to their clients and expect to get paid for doing so, like they would for any other modality. It’s okay to Coach a lot of people for free, or for a low fee, especially in the beginning, but only for a set period of time. Always be sure to balance the energy exchange. For example… let these clients know in exchange for Coaching at a lower rate, you would like them to provide a written or video testimonial you can use on your website.
  2. Your Clients Deserve the Best Spiritual Life Coaching Services that You Can Deliver. It is important for you to help your clients achieve their three most important self-help goals. But you can’t do that if you are stressing over trying to make a living facilitating too many low-paying clients. Be careful not to spread yourself too thin, it will mean less attention for each of your clients.
  3. You Want to Coach Low-Income People Who Could Benefit from receiving your Spiritual Life Coaching services. Nothing wrong with that, unless you put yourself out of business. Therefore, it makes sense to charge a high enough fee to your regular clients to allow you to offer scholarships for your low-income clients. You can also volunteer your coaching services to an organization that provides coaching to low-income people. Another example- provide Group Coaching which can be facilitated at a lower-rate than one-on-one Coaching.

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August 10, 2017

Are You Charging Too Little… FOR YOUR COACHING SERVICES?

TIP 2 of 3
Paraphrased By Work Originally
Composed By Stefan James

In last week’s tip, I shared information from an article by Stefan James that resonated with me so much that I needed to pass it along to our community of Coaches. I received so much feedback that I’m sharing additional points from Stefan’s article.
In HLC’s over 20 years of certifying Coaches, one major hurdle for a lot of students is How To Charge For Sessions. Much of this is taken care of in our program because we skyrocket our student’s confidence in their Coaching abilities. Mr. James’s good sound advice and unique perspective can make a massive difference to your private practice.

Here Are Three MORE Reasons Why You Might Be
Charging Too Little for Your Spiritual Life Coaching Services…

  1. Unconsciously… You Don’t See the Value in Coaching Because You Never Hired Your Own Coach. Now you might think “How could that be, I’m trying to become a Coach”. Think about it, how much could you believe in the impact of what Coaching can do… yet you never sought this for yourself. If you didn’t believe it had enough value for you to hire a Coach why would someone hire you? This is more widespread than you might think. HLC implemented the solution into the certification program. All exercises are not only taught to students, but students experience them first-hand to gain a deeper understanding they can pass along to their future clients. HLC’s teaching model is “See One, Do One, Teach One”.
  2. Your Egoic Mind Has a Disempowering ‘Victim Story’ About Why People Won’t or Can’t Afford to Pay You More. Yes, it’s true that many people have been out of work for a long time. But much more are still working, and of those, a clear majority are making more money than ever. And, let’s not forget the fact that coaching is the 2nd fastest growing profession in the world.
  3. People Frequently Measure How Valuable Something is By How Much It Costs. The fact of life is that your Spiritual Life Coaching clients will put more effort into their coaching sessions because when they pay more, they will want to make sure they get their money’s worth, which many Coaches discover after raising their own fees.

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