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April 10, 2015

“Coach Hu… What Is THE GOD GAP?”

 The God Gap is the Silent Space…
Between Your Thoughts.

Every Time You Are Consciously Conscious
of the God Gap…
You Are Able To Grok
The Formless Dimension
Of Pure Consciousness
That Arises From Within You.

Your Awareness of the God Gap
Will Help You To Transcend
The False Identification
of your True Self
As Thoughts, Feelings, Roles and Labels. 

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April 2, 2015

“Coach Hu What’s the… Crucifixion-Resurrection Cycle?”

Holy Week celebrates the zenith for the Christians who have dedicated their lives to modeling the deeds and works of Jesus the Christ. It celebrates a Great Soul who took birth 2000 years ago, a soul just like you and I who, by His actions, has positively affected the lives of billions of Souls on their… Journey Home To Their Inner Self.

It is important to acknowledge Jesus’s accomplishments, but it’s even more important to model His behavior and act more “Christ like.” Jesus positive example was exemplified by His greatest act of Unconditional Love and Acceptance when he willing allowed Himself to be crucified. By committing to be more “Christ like” we are opening the possibility to achieve what Jesus promised us when he said, “And greater things shall you do those who follow me.”

 Acceptance of the Unacceptable
Is The Greatest Source of Grace In This World

Even the most painful situations conceal a… Deeper Good;
within every disaster is contained the… Seeds of Grace.

Throughout history, there have been women and men who, like Jesus
in the face of great loss, illness, imprisonment, or impending death…
Accepted the Seemingly… Unacceptable
and thus found…
“The Peace that Passeth All Understanding.”

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The Symbolic Form of the… Image of the Cross

You don’t have to be a Christian to understand the deep universal truth that is contained in the symbolic form of the… Image of the Cross. The cross is a torture instrument and it stands for the most extreme suffering, limitation, and helplessness a human being can experience.

Yet when Jesus surrendered willingly, expressed through the words, “Not my will, but Thy will be done” then the cross, an instrument of torture, shows its paradoxical face, and becomes a Sacred Symbol for Unconditional, Divine Acceptance.

The cross, an instrument that seems to deny the existence of any transcendental dimension of love, through Conscious Surrender becomes an opening into a Transformational Dimension of Light and Love.

Lord, I UNCONDITIONALLY ACCEPT… that even Christ like BE-ings,
such as Jesus Christ, were betrayed, denied and abandoned by His saintly Apostles.

Yet when he was being crucified He~ Unconditionally Accepted
His dharmic purpose for the suffering He was experiencing when He said…
“Forgive them Father for they know not what they do.”

Crucifixion – Resurrection Cycle

Symbolically the Crucifixion-Resurrection Cycle represents the Spiritual Transformation from identifying oneself as a mortal human, to identifying oneself as a divine, immortal Spirit of Light and Love. We can see this miraculous metamorphosis in nature when we observe a caterpillar as it transforms itself into a beautiful butterfly.

Each and every day Consciously Awakened Souls cycle between the “death” of falsely identifying themselves as the roles they play, and then something quite miraculous happens and they “Resurrect” their understanding that they are not the roles they play, and they grok that they are an empowered BE-ing of God.

This Crucifixion-Resurrection Cycle plays out in our daily lives as we keep transitioning from identifying ourselves as our roles, beliefs and identities to “Resurrecting” our identification of our Selves as the Life Force Energy of the Universe, which different spiritual paths call the Spirit, Soul, Jesus, Buddha Nature, Self, God, Awareness, Atman and the ‘I Am’ Consciousness- to name only a few.

This Conscious Resurrection or Awakening that you are this Life Force Energy of the Universe frees you from the suffering that you inflict on yourself and others, when your mind-made “little ego” runs your life.

This Divine Intelligence operates silently and subtlety, with its Infinite Organizing Powers such as the 10 trillion chemical reactions needed per second for our human bodies to function. It is amazing that most people don’t realize that this Divine Power originates in the Sacred HeartNot the intellectual mind, which is why real Conscious Awakening … Is Very Uncommon.

This is why you don’t have to be a Christian to celebrate the daily Crucifixion-Resurrection Cycle that we all experience if we are Consciously Conscious that we are not the roles, labels, duties and responsibilities that we perform; we are Divine Immortal BE-ings of Light and Love who are having a human experience.

Namasté  Om Shanti

Hu Dalconzo, CSLC Founder of HLC
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March 4, 2013

Recovery/ 12 Steps Series – Step 3

How to Walk the 12 Steps with the HuMethod™ Article 4
Turn Your Will and Your Life Over and Begin to …
Feel, Release and Rewire


By Certified Life Coach Deborah Giddings
Namasté soul friends,
Welcome to this next article in the series “How to Walk the 12 Steps with the HuMethod™.  I have to tell you that as I’ve been writing these articles, my 12-step journey continues to expand and deepen.  Journaling always was a great tool for me, and now this form of writing seems to be taking me in another direction.  Thank You God!
In Step 3 when I “Made a decision to turn my will and my life over to the care of God as I understood God” a shift happened.  Until this point I was ‘thinking alone’ in my mind, which is a fear-based system that can only draw from my own history.  I lived my life always waiting for the next crisis to be over with.  Now I know that “life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, it’s learning how to dance in the rain, and Detachment is dancing in the rain mastery” (quote taken in part from the HuMan Handbook™ soon to be released).
Using the HuMethod™ exercise of Self-Parenting, I formed a new relationship with the God of my understanding to help me fulfill the emotional dependency needs that were not met when I was a child.  Remember, these HuMethod™ exercises don’t replace the proven 12 Steps. They are a bridge that you can take that will introduce you to advanced tools to enhance and accelerate your recovery journey.
There are seven pieces of Self-parenting:
  1. Emotional Intimacy
    (“in-to-me-see”) – I learned how to be emotionally honest about what I am feeling and thinking.  In doing this I replaced my fear based  thoughts with God thoughts.  I never was honest about my feelings  and in fact spent all of my childhood and a lot of my early adulthood suppressing, repressing, minimizing and denying my feelings.  My feelings were the ‘enemy’.  Today I know that my feelings are a gift from the God of my understanding to help me connect with my body and my Self.
  2. Self-Nurturing – I am able to take care of my inner child in such a way that I feel safe and protected in the world.  I was never held and gently touched as a child and as a result always felt dis-connected to the world, which frightened me and gave more fuel to my ego.  I felt alone.  Today as I nurture myself I am in harmony with my divine Self and conscious of this life force energy.  I am never alone.
  3. Unconditional Love & Acceptance – Turning my will and life over to the care of God gave me an intuitive understanding that I AM a ‘perfect’ child of God now, as is, so I can love and accept myself (and others) ‘without behavioral conditions’ especially when I display less than perfect behavior.  Understanding the Language of Feelings helped me to accept and love myself and others regardless of their less than perfect behavior.  I learned how to stop suppressing, repressing, minimizing, denying and judging what I was feeling.  I understand today that what happened actually happened for the evolution of my immortal soul.  Unconditionally loving and accepting myself gave me the serenity I had been searching for.
  4. Boundary Protection – Allows me to feel safe and secure in the world because I have mastered how to maturely protect my boundaries to the right person, in the right manner, to the right degree and in the right way.  I had no clue what boundaries were and as a result, walked all over mine and everyone else’s on a regular basis.  My temper tantrums took the forms of screaming, yelling, slamming, pouting, crying and then walking away.  As I became more conscious, setting boundaries gave me the distinction that I needed between me and the people in my life and gave me integrity.
  5. Validating My Life – Helped me to “own” the whole truth about everything I experienced in my life.  This meant accepting, at the deepest level, that what happened actually happened so I could truly say “YES” to life.  Accepting this truth, as is, put my ego out of a job.Most of my life I spent dissing myself and making excuses for everyone around me.  In the end, there was no life left in me. I had completely turned my will and my life over to my EGO.  Today I give value to my feelings with well grounded evidence of why my feelings aren’t right, wrong good or bad,they are just what I am feeling. When I validate my feelings, my ego has nothing else to do.
  6. Three EGO S’s – Using my self-parenting techniques, which make me feel safe,sane and secure in the world, made my child-like ego defenses that I needed to survive when I was a child, obsolete.  As a child I needed the protection of my ego defenses because I was too small, vulnerable and naïve to protect my Self.  I couldn’t protect myself against large, powerful adults who acted out in dysfunctional ways.  Today I use my ego and am not used by it.  I use the three S’s as I validate myself.  I know that it’s safe for me to feel what I feel, that my Self will always be here to protect me which makes me feel sane and secure.
  7. Four P’s of a Self-Mastered Adult – I now use my Adult Powers to Protect me, which makes my world safe. I give myself Permission to live my life by my own set of rules that are based on my own unique, moral and ethical standards.  I have integrated my Self-Parenting exercises into my daily life to such a degree that “I AM” my Self-mastery message of unconditional love and acceptance.  Thank you God!
I could talk all day about how my life has changed by Self-mastering the Self-Parenting exercises.   If you are interested in learning more, log onto Holistic Learning Center’s web page and
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Join me next time as I share how I experienced the benefits of ‘taking a fearless and moral inventory’ using HuMethod™ diagnostic exercises.    Keep coming – it works if you work it!
Deborah Giddings, CSLC and Recovery Trainer
If you seek Recovery Coaching help for yourself or for a family member, if you are an HLC CSLC or CIT, an addiction counselor or a recovery coach, or if you are in Al-Anon, AA, OA, GA, NA, SLAA and you want to mastermind with Deborah you can contact Deborah directly via her email Deb.Giddings@HolisticLearningCenter.com.  Deborah is also available for speaking engagements to share how her recovery journey was transformed by emotionalizing the HuMethod™ exercises.

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  • Diane C on October 24, 2011 at 7:34 pm | Reply |

    Thank you Hu, HLC and Deborah, for this blog. These Self Mastery tools found using the Hu Method have helped a great deal in my journey of recovery. Prior to working with an HLC coach, I had done a lot of inner reflection and I had also made massive changes in my life, my behavior and in my thinking. It was all good stuff and I cleaned up my past, trusted in God and helped others. But, there remained a gnawing in my heart and the negative sound of low self-esteem in my mind, and I continued to be accessed by things that other people said and did. The Self-Parenting exercises seemed awkward at first and my ego mind resisted the slight mention of performing this life changing action. My ego fought diligently to stay on top and “in charge.”
    These methods work quickly though, and after a short time, I began to truly love the Diane that I am…………….AND, I had less and less dependency upon my children, my grandchildren and my husband for the way I felt and how I responded to life. I began to see that it is my responsibility and mine alone to nurture, love and protect my Self. That was huge! I now had a way to do that as opposed to hiding, running, expecting, and coercing. Wow!
    HLC’s proven methods worked so well for me that I not only began to practice these methods as a way of life, but I decided to coach others to do the same. I am the recipient of much healing and Self-appreciation and I have so many opportunities to share these methods with others in recovery. Join us on this journey and enhance your recovery as so many others have done. Remember: Nothing changes if nothing changes!

  • Eric on October 16, 2011 at 4:23 pm | Reply |

    I’ve been reading these blog articles for while now and the integration of the healing program is very interesting. I have a friend who is in recovery and I am referring her to them. Thank you for the share.

  • Lavinia on October 16, 2011 at 10:33 am | Reply |

    I wish I had these articles and knew of this website in the beginning of my recover journey!
    None-the-less I am enjoying them now, thank you.

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